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A gratitude letter to myself... 

    I appreciate you. You've been accepting everything happening to you. It's been surprising to your friends and family. Something shows that your maturity is what keeps you optimistic. I wonder who instilled that into you. Also, it might be the countless situations that have happened to you. Other people who hear your war stories become inspired by the smiles that follow. Loving yourself is the first step of your new journey. I am also astonished by the great obstacles you've overcome. Negativity is never spread with you. Yes, you mention the poor circumstances, insults used against you, and pain that you experience. These "negatives" aren't things that label your character. It's remarkable. 

    I'll have to mention some of your physical characteristics to try and tear you down. It never works as they always have benefits that make you such an understanding person. That gets me thinking like everyone else that forced themselves to be against you. Even in those moments you still found ways to think of them as kin spirits. You have the willingness to forgive too soon. This makes sense for why you have soldiers around you to prevent you from letting someone into your life that will torment you. It's amazing. You cope better than anyone you know. One thing I wish you could do is find new ways to accept compliments. You deserve them. Jokes will only get you so far. Watch a TED talk about it. I think you're great. Again, you deserve the love that you give everyone else. Unconditional. 

Sincerely,

Stratora

6-28-2023

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